If you are going to spank me and I hope that you will, please may it worthwhile. Do not lightly swat my bottom, unless in play or jest. If you want me to feel something, whether that be my submission, our pleasure or to learn a lesson, make it count. Smack me hard. Leave your mark. Make it burn. Cause me to growl, to buck against your force, expose my emotion.
If you want to hurt me then fucking hurt me. Make it count.